About Benjamin Carlyle — a full-time Marriage Celebrant based on the beautiful Tweed Coast, marrying awesome humans from Byron Bay to the Gold Coast (and beyond). Since 2009, I’ve had the privilege of officiating over 1,500 weddings, bringing good vibes, calm energy, and heartfelt storytelling to every ceremony I lead.
But what else floats my boat? Here’s a little peek behind the mic…
About Benjamin Carlyle – Tweed Coast Marriage Celebrant
Life Outside the Ceremony
- 🏡 Pottsville Beach Local – I live by the sea with my amazing wife Tarnie, our two teenage boys, and our four-legged legend, Panda the Bordoodle. Life is busy, loud, and full of love — just how we like it.
- 🏄♂️ Movement + Mindfulness – Surfing is my therapy, the gym keeps me moving, and I find calm through meditation, beach walks, and time in nature.
- 🔥 Community & Coaching – I run a Men’s Circle to support honest conversation, connection, and accountability. I’m also an Emotional Coach, helping individuals and couples reset their emotional code and live with more awareness.
- 💬 What I Value – Authenticity, presence, real laughter, and creating spaces where people feel seen, heard, and 100% themselves.
- ☕ What Fills My Cup – Surf sessions on the Tweed Coast, almond lattes at the local café, walks with Panda, and taking care of our little coastal haven in Pottsville.
Whether I’m crafting a ceremony, facilitating a men’s circle, or catching a few waves my focus is always on connection, presence, and creating meaningful moments.
More about Benjamin Carlyle below:
Before I found my calling as a celebrant, I wore a few different hats — all of them creative and some people focused. It’s taught me how to listen to and speak many languages of life:
I’ve always been drawn to connection, performance, and making people feel something.
Becoming a celebrant brought all those passions together — and I haven’t looked back since.
Our Story – Meeting Tarnie & Growing the Carlyle’s
- How We Met – I met my gorgeous wife Tarnie in a totally unexpected, cosmic kind of way — instant sparks, undeniable connection. One of those “I wasn’t looking, it found me” moments.
- Right Place, Right Time – I was finally in the right head and heart space to meet the love of my life… and she had way better taste than me — my wardrobe quickly moved in!
- Adventures Together – We worked and travelled across Australia together in the movie industry — side by side, learning, growing, chasing stories and sunsets.
- Home Base – With some savings, we bought land in Pottsville and built a house… right in the middle of having our first baby! (Wouldn’t recommend the timing, but no regrets!)
- Family Begins – Our son Nattai arrived mid-build, choosing us before we even knew we were ready. Two years later, Makani joined the team — Tarnie was pregnant with him at our wedding in 2011!
- Full House, Full Hearts – Fast forward to now, we’ve got Nattai 15 and Makani is 13 years old, and Panda the Bordoodle keeping us on our toes. Life is loud, full, and absolutely awesome.
Tarnie and I also run Hitched in Paradise
Est. 2012 we offer curated elopement experiences across the region. We love helping couples escape the stress and tap into what really matters — celebrating love in paradise, your way.
Click here to learn more about getting Hitched In Paradise
” If you’re looking for a celebrant who’s grounded, upbeat, experienced, and genuinely passionate about making your day unforgettable — I’d love to hear your story. “
