Yes, I have a fantastic supporting Document to help you create authentic and amazing Wedding Vows.
So here you are – about to sum up everything you feel for your partner in just a few short minutes. No pressure, right? Don’t worry. This is one of the rare moments in life where you get to wear your heart on your sleeve and tell your partner (and everyone listening) exactly why you’re choosing them.
Where Do I Even Start?!
If you’re thinking “Ben, I’m freaking out!” – you’re not alone. Most people feel the same way.
The truth is, the reason you’ve heard cringey vows at other weddings is because couples were given outdated, generic templates. That’s not what we want here.
Speak in Your Language
Your vows don’t have to sound like anyone else’s. In fact, they shouldn’t. The best vows are authentic, honest, and 100% you.
For you, that might mean:
- Writing a heartfelt love letter
- Making it light and funny
- Getting a little gushy and romantic
- Listing promises (serious or silly)
- Or even writing a short poem
There’s no right or wrong – just your voice, your style, your truth.
The golden rule: Keep it real.
Your vows are one of the most meaningful parts of your ceremony. Keep them real, keep them you, and they’ll be unforgettable – for you, your partner, and everyone lucky enough to witness them!
My couples send through their Vows via their separate emails and I can check them out to see how they measure up for length, vibe and content. I can offer creative advice to bring them closer together and helpful prompts if they require more content.


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